4 Ideas you
weren’t taught in School.
By Zane Smith
This
won’t be another attack on our academic system. This WILL be a crash course on
painfully practical topics you and I weren’t offered in class. Through the past
few decades the system has absorbed some streetwise curriculum that are, at
times, even required. Life Management Skills, Sex Ed, Critical Thinking , etc…
[Even with] the additions in curriculum, a star pupil will still feel like some
gold mine of information was left out when he/she finally enters the grown-up
arena.
Here
are four simple lessons that would have opened our eyes years sooner. This list
is not the end all be all, I’m sure there are buckets of street-smarts we could
all have benefited from.

Lesson 1
Free thinking
Almost
nothing you ever read or hear from another person will be entirely factual.
Opinions aside, nearly all
information we spew at each other is dripping with bias and miscommunications.
Sprinkle some emotional attachment on that, and you’ve got a good old fashion soap-box-sandwich.
You
read an article in the news stating a local political official is being accused
of embezzlement and fraud. GASP! My precious tax dollars! Another entry just
beside it says local high-dollar lawyers have been roaming around throwing
important people’s names in the dirt with no evidence to back up the
allegations. GREAT SCOT! THE POLITICAL GUY IS INOCCENT!
Get the point? This is where the
saying “two sides to every story” spawns from. People may be telling you the
truth, but leave out the parts they don’t like, and capitalize on the items
they do, giving a lopsided spin. Not even your expensive text books or crusty
grandmother are 100% real.
This might dismay you into
believing there is just so much bullshit the truth is not worth digging for.
But Lo! The facts are present! We usually just need to clean off the glup and
grime of human interjection to harness them.
Keep an OPEN MIND , be a
POSITIVE SKEPTIC , don’t believe all
the niose.
Lesson 2
Mistakes are good
Getting
an F on an important test sure doesn’t seem like a good thing. But the
positivity comes from the way you respond to the mistake. Remain the same, or
change your behavior to make sure the flub doesn’t recur. Those are essentially
our options.
A laser
guided missile uses a computer to constantly calculate where its current
trajectory will take it. If the predicted destination is off, it makes the
slight adjustments to ensure success. The projectile runs this program loop
thousands of times before it decimates the bullseye; victory. The human brain
operates on the same principles: “Ouch, that stove is hot. In the future, I’ll
refrain from setting my hand on a stove.” Pain>>Learn>>Grow.
Now if you’ll all turn to chapter
2, you’ll read that all failures are
opportunities to grow. Next time there is a test, try cracking the book
open for a couple of minutes the night before. Then maybe your F will turn to a
C, and you would’ve gain a little bit o’ book learnin.
Lesson 3
Entrepreneurship
You
don’t have to work for your money, you can make your money work for you. Working
for somebody else is not your only option. You live in a country that is
powered by, and promotes Free Enterprise. Business owners (and investors) are
the wealthiest people in the world.
Tell me if this sounds familiar: get
good grades in high school; go to a good university; get a good job; 401K your
way to retirement at 65. Life succeeded! Right?
Wrong. I’m not saying this is a bad
route to travel, but understand that people you see with million dollar homes
and Ferraris didn’t get those things by following the formula above. Maybe 1%
of them did, all of them CEOs at top corporations. But you know what those CEOs
don’t have? Time to enjoy their
mansions and supercars.
People fall into 4 sectors of money
making, according to market guru Robert Kyosaki: Employment, Self-employment,
Investing, and Big Business. The first two eat up your clock, the last two make
you wealthy, if you play your cards right.
But we don’t hear this in school do
we? We are asked “what do you want to be?”, when we should be hearing “how
do you want to live?”
Lesson 4
Shit Gets Real (Ladies, pardon the French)
Life is not a T.V. show. Sometimes the
girl gets away, the main character loses, or the ending isn’t happily ever
after. This is OK because life goes on. It’s all good.
Most of us who have walked the Earth for more than 15
years already learn this intuitively, but in modern western civilization we can
be coddled all throughout high school and college. We feel safe inside our warm
cocoon of student-ness.
But eventually metamorphosis leaves the egg. The cosmos
snaps back and shows it’s seemingly chaotic side. As a wise man once said: “in
life, there is suffering”. This may seem very stoic and negative, however
undeniable. There’s also a lot of happiness and rainbows, but that isn’t the
problem, is it?
The point is to recognize the universe is not
necessarily always on your side, and when it shows you this, you will probably
not enjoy it. “Things don’t always work out”, “life isn’t fair”, “dog eat dog”,
“box of chocolates”….the list goes on. But in the end it’s all good.
This Lesson list is incomplete, I’m sure. I
hope that what I did provide gave you some insight and practical knowledge for
the days ahead. And if not: shit happens.
Yours Truly
Zane Smith